I see another try at deconditioning coming down the pike again....It's getting ridiculous.
Sugardude, good to see you posting again. It sounds like the past few months have been a frustrating. It does seem you've tried a number of supplements and diets to no avail. And artificial sweeteners just ignites the same sugar flame. (There are some studies showing that artificial sweeteners trigger the same insulin response in sensitive individuals. A good discussion of this is on Jimmy Moore's low carb website:
http://www.livinlowcarbdiscussion.com/showthread.php?tid=3021).
I'll go out on a limb here and give you my honest opinion, which I realize goes against much of the conventional wisdom:
All the diets and supplements which may seem to reduce your cravings in the short term.
But they don't change the circuit in your brain that connects the stimulus to the response. You can avoid the stimulus (sweet foods) for days, weeks, months...but what happens in a moment of stress when you get exposed to the stimulus situation again, the circuit is activated, and you give it? Then it is all for nothing. The fact is that you have a very deeply burned circuit in your brain, like a well worn path through the woods. You need to find a way to totally obliterate the old path and create alternative pathways, or your brain will always take the path of least resistance.
Have you really done a serious attempt at direct cue exposure deconditioning? I don't mean once or twice, I mean in a serious way -- exposing yourself to the appearance, aroma, and even taste and texture of sweet foods, swishing in your mouth-- and then spitting out. And doing it repeatedly, especially with the most tempting foods.
I realize that sounds like heresy, but it has worked to cure an number of people from serious addictions, as documented in the research by Conklin and Tiffany that I posted on
"Overcoming Addictions". And Heidi has posted of her success with her
"Non-Addictive Food Diet", using her "Enlightened Tasting" technique. It sounds very odd and perhaps even repulsive, but it might work for you if you can stick with it a while.
The aim of the deconditioning is to render the old pathway ineffective...dead...broken...unable to activate. At the same time you need to actively develop an alternative response to stress, because it is in fact stress that is the activator of your sugar circuit. Deliberately plan some days where you will expose yourself to an uncomfortable stress and then...go to the gym, or for a run, or take a nice bath, or watch a movie or call a friend. This also will take repeating to reinforce.
Here's an apt a analogy: Your sugar addiction is a very well worn path through the woods. You need to create new, alternate paths through the woods, by non-reinforcement and active counter-conditioning: plant new high grass in the path and cut down trees to fall across it, until in becomes impassable. Your current strategy of supplements and diets is like avoiding the woods but leaving the path there. The problem is...you will always return to the woods and the path will still be there and will always be the most attractive path through the woods if you don't actively extinguish it.
My best wishes to you,
Todd